The sister of a New York City groom who killed himself hours after exchanging marriage vows said Tuesday that he was distraught over feeling “pressured into marriage.”
Fernando Brazier, 28, jumped into the Harlem River over the weekend, hours after marrying his bride, Trudian Hay, with whom he had two young daughters. ( this bytch didn’t feel too pressured about being with this woman! He had not one but two damn kids with her, and trust me… being a dad is MUCH harder than being a husband you ol ignant bytch)
Brazier’s sister, Shawna Weeks, told FoxNews.com that he often came to her home every Thursday after work to talk about his concerns — his eyes “blood shot” and in a state of despair.
“They had nothing in common,” Weeks said. “That’s why they postponed the wedding a year ago. He was being pressured into it.”
Weeks said Brazier considered 26-year-old Hay to be a “great person,” but “just not for him.”
He reportedly left a suicide note for Hay at the front desk of the Radisson Hotel in New Rochelle, where the couple celebrated their wedding on Saturday.
Weeks told the New York Post that Brazier also “left his ring in the envelope.”
Efforts by FoxNews.com to reach Hay’s family were unsuccessful.
Police sources told the newspaper that Brazier’s note said he could be found at the bottom of the river, not far from a Pathmark supermarket and Dyckman Street on the Manhattan side.
Witnesses reported seeing Brazier walk out of the Radisson and into a cab sometime before 9 a.m. local time Sunday.
He made his way to 55 Richman Plaza about 15 minutes away in the Bronx, where he jumped either from a building or the promenade behind it, police sources told the Post.
Brazier’s body was later found in the waters near Roberto Clemente State Park, slightly upstream from where he was believed to have jumped, according to the newspaper.
Brazier and Hay had reportedly dated since they were teenagers and had two children together, ages 5 and 2. [source]
OK, not to speak ill of the dead but… this is just ridiculous, man. If she wasn’t the ONE for him, what the fugg was the point of having not one but two damn children with this woman!??? This is the shyt that really pisses me off about my black men in particular, and be ready to be offended, but we seem to have little to no regard in creating children with these women, no gatdamn fear what so ever, but then have the nerve to fear a real committment to these same women.
Look, i understand how it is. Vagina feels and tastes awwwwwwwwwesome. But I’ll preach this shyt right here from my high-horse and give not a fugg if it makes you feel bad, but lookithere: I have never been so dumb as to not wear a condom whilst having sex with a woman I didn’t think was worthy of creating life with me, and if you have, that’s your own ignant-ass stupid-ass fault. DEAL with it.
If she isn’t the one worthy to commit to, she isn’t worthy to be rawdogging and creating children with! Let’s be real.
It’s just ridiculous.
If you can create a life with someone, you can share a life with them.
Don’t want to take that type of step and or commitment, fellaz, Wrap up your dick, son.