I am hoping to get a male perspective from the collective here at OHN as I ran into an incident last week that has caused me to debate whether or not I should consider driving through this Negroes front door with my truck.
For several weeks now this guy and I have been flirting and meeting for drinks and dinner on a few occasions as we can. Lately the conversations had turned sexual to which It was explained to me that he was very well endowed and couldn’t wait to show and prove what he could do to me. I explained to him that I do like sex but that It is very rare that I will achieve orgasm from having my insides shifted about from penis – and to be honest, the larger the penis the smaller the chance I’m going to be able to cum from it. The few times I have cum from penetration was from guys who were average to more along the small side.
He wasn’t perturbed in the least.
Last week we took It there and hooked up after a great night of dancing and jazz and true enough, it was a huge dick he had hanging off of his body. Which did little to nothing in terms of hitting the ‘spot’ I needed him to hit. I politely gave him hints as to what he could do with that thing while we were having sex but it was like he thought he knew everything I needed and that my input was just frankly unnecessary. “ I’ve got this girl don’t worry.” “I know what I’m doing in this. I know I’ve got you stretched out good.” TRUE it was big and TRUE it was good but it wasn’t going to get me to where I needed to be and it seemed like he was not trying to hear what I was saying in regards to helping me get to happy land – and from the looks on his face, he was quickly approaching that.
Had little choice but to to take matters into my own hands.
While he was impaling me with a horse length of Goddamn, I decided to rub on my happy place in hopes that we could BOTH have a happy ending.
But none of us did. He got angry, put his clothes on and told me that I could “ just sit there and slap my p*ssy all by myself then.”
How was I wrong? Was MY orgasms not important? I need the men of OHN to let me know was I completely out of line here or is it justified that I want to leave Escalade tire prints up and down his ass.
Signed, Dj hero. ( ohnworld inside joke)
Now I asked around to a few of the ohnawlian men and women over the weekend because I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t way off when I sit here and say: FOCK THAT DUDE!
You communicated to him that him having a home hysterectomy causing cock in his pants would not be the key to helping you get over the damn rainbow. THEN you tried to help dude along whilst he was tenderising your inside parts only to have him sit there and ignore what you were saying!?
Girl. Baby… lovey love. You know I love me some you and we go way backety back-back but…. I am not seeing the damn issue. Were you supposed to just sit there and let him get his? Was YOUR nut not important?
I say let that fool skate, girl. Because you aren’t into those X games. (word to j cole).
One of your fellow OHN ladies put it best when she and I were discussing this letter on saturday and..
She let him IN. If I’m a guest in your house, I should do what you say. If you are a guest in my p*ssy, you do what I say.
:: drops mic ::
That’s just my opinion though.
OHNawlians? what say you…..