What say YOU, Ohnawlians? Was her dad out of line or just in time. Or do you think he could have handled it differently?
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I wouldn't have used the word "slut," but, otherwise, carry on.
*sigh*
I'm kinda over these parents making kids takes pics like this… *shrugs*
as for whooping her…I don't know…I think I've told this story before…years ago I dated a guy who said he stopped whooping his daughter once she got older because he didn't want her to think it was OK for a man to hit a girl…that kinda stuck with me because I never thought about it like that…
with kids these days whooping them doesn't work much anymore once they get older…
I wouldn't say that the dad was wrong …
Yeah my dad never hit as a child for that very reason. He'd leave all the a$$ whoopins to mom dukes and the thought pf her beatin my a$$ was terrifyin within itself! She'd whoop me w/ anything she found in the vicinity…switches, those huge wooden spoons, hair brushes, shoes, baby gates….she ain't give a fugg LOL!
lol yea my mom beat with a vacuum cleaner hose (the hard ones) once…and I was 15 years old
EYE wouldn't be whoopin' on my daughters. My wife got that tho.
I need to know what Slut Locking is? Is it like Pop-Locking?
Probably would not have used slut either.
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Whaaaaa? I thought it was Pop-locking but being done in a Slutty way.
I don't think this works, and I definitely don't think most of these pics are really parents punishing their kids.
With all the FB "like" whores out there, I think the kids are posting these themselves, just for a reaction.
Why do I think so? Not long after this one posted, another one did… different girl, same type of message.
People are now resorting to babies in caskets for likes…
yea I'm beginning to think the same thing sis
and what does it really do anyway?
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I'm not gonna fault this man for trying to keep his daughter from ruining her future. We all know that once something's on the internet, it's damn near impossible to control it or delete it permanently from bouncing around the ether. Those pics could come back in the future to bite her in the tail when she least expects it (college admissions, job opportunities, career in politics or teaching, her kids could run across it one day, etc.). If she's moderately embarrassed now, it's better than her graduating from "slut-looking" today to full-on nude tomorrow and really causing damage to her future. She looks old enough to know what she did wasn't right and she definitely looks old enough to know what a slut is (and we don't know what those pics she posted actually look like, what if she was in her underwear bent over letting all and sundry see her barely-covered goodies? sounds slutty to me, IJS), so I'm not mad at the word usage either. Meh, maybe I just take a hard-line approach to these kinds of things, but I don't see a problem with this.
I have kids from 9-18 and all they know is social media….and the worst thing you can do to a child is embarrass the hell out of them in front of their friends…IMO, I believe it works….make them get online and let the world know they aren't doing anything but "parking lot pimping" ie, living a lie….My oldest tried that one time…dude, you aren't gansta! You live in the suburbs, boy stop! LOL
I completely agree w/ Foolishmessandf*ckery.
Maaaaan…look. Kids don't care if you whoop them. Kids don't care if you ground them. About the only thing that we ALL know kids care about…is being embarrassed in front of their friends. I think parents are adapting to the times and I applaud them for that. It might help. It might not. Little triflin daughters might think they're slick posting (what they think) is sexy pictures on their facebooks not even THINKING about mom or dad seeing them. I think this is like everything else. Your kids WANT you to give them cyber boundaries along with real life boundaries. This little girl just got boundaries thrown at her. She might try to push them in the future, she might not…but at least she sees that mom and dad DO care enough to intervene. I think alot of kids act afool and aslut on the internet hoping to get caught. Testing. Always testing.
and I'm totally that parent. Let me find out my kid stole something. I'll have that little thug standin on the busiest street in my city holding a billboard all day. Let me find out my daughter put an inappropriate picture on the internet. I WISH A MF'ER WOULD. Let me find out my kid is bullying another kid. I ain't the one. I ain't takin your side against a teacher, another kid or anyone else for that matter. I'll beat your little punkass into next week and embarass the sh*t out of you to take you down a peg or 50.
Chile, when my 16yr old was about 3, he stole a toy out of the Disney store..I was wondering why he kept shifting in the stroller…when I saw what he had done, I cut the wheels on that bad boy, made him get out and walk his extra chunky ass back in there and tell them, "I'm sorry I stole a toy, it wont happen again" And I let him know that the police will take children to kiddie jail! And I dusted his little tail…
See…. That's what you DO. Put the fear of Satan into them kids.
But I do have to question…
when I was growing up I was deathly afraid of my mother…I still am and she's gone on to Heaven…
seems a lot of parents don't put that fear in their children today…kids think they can do whatever they want…parents trying to be their children's friends instead of being their parent
I don't know how old this child is but she doesn't even look old enough to be on social media…
I tried to raise Dorian as old fashion as I could…we had 1 computer in the house…it was in the dining room and I had admin rights to it so I could see everything on it…
when he snuck and created a myspace page I deleted it and let him know I did…it was a few years before he tried that again….I was also quick to block his access…
he didn't get a cellphone until he was almost 14 and then I had strict rules on it…shoot I blocked texting for a long time on his phone and until he was a senior in high school he couldn't have it past 10 pm
I just wonder with all the new fangled technology and "parenting" ways is all that really working against you…
what role are the parents playing when kids do things like this…
I'm not against whooping kids, but I don't think it was warranted in this case. I agree with Foolishness and F*ckary and Tracy, kids hate to be embarrassed in front of their friends.
In response to originalwharris, children do not like embarrassment. My parents established from an early age what was right and wrong. By the time I was a teenager, I knew. I knew what I could get away with. I knew what not to do. I was whooped when I was young; I wasn't beaten. But, by the time I reached 8 (or so) years old, I didn't have to get whooped to know anymore. Forgive me if this sounds like a blanket statement, but the children I see these days don't respect their parents. The parents don't demand respect. It seems they are too focused on their own lives and would rather deal with the kids embarrassing them in public as opposed to the other way around. If I embarrass my child in front of his/her friends, he/she will probably think twice about doing that again.
This is coming from a 23 year old who is not yet a mother. When I talk to my friends about this, I always get the response "Well, you don't know because you don't have kids." I didn't realize that becoming a parent in itself makes you a genius. Just sounds to me like you're lazy.
Maybe "slut" wasn't the best term, but I don't see a big problem with it. He's tryna keep her from long-term embarrasment
Trying to keep her out of a Juicy J song, that's all.
I have no opinion on whether it was right or wrong, or whether it worked or not. The one thing that DID stick with me, though, was this, "I took slut looking picture and I AM NOT ONE." I actually think that's very important, reinforcing to your child that they are not a slut, that they are not a bad person, that they are not stupid or lazy or xyz negative attribute.
People are simple. They like to believe that others think highly of them. If you hold someone to a high standard they will start to believe it, and that's true across the board whether it's a child, friend, employee, coworker, etc. The moment someone feels like they are honestly viewed in a certain positive light, they will do whatever it takes to live up to that image. It's like a psychological human thing.
I feel like parents are focusing on reinforcing superficial stuff like "Oh you're the most beautiful, best, most important, etc etc." Instead of reinforcing things like hard-working, intelligent, modest, humble, etc. That's why so many kids think the world revolves around them, nobody bothers to hold them to high standards anymore. Everyone is great. Everyone is a winner. Blah blah blah. Nothing requires work anymore.
That's my hypothesis, anyway. *shrugs*
She doesn't even look embarrassed really. She looks like, as my daddy would say, she wants someone to slap the attitude right off her f'n face.
I do not get these kids today. I just turned 28, and I'm still afraid my daddy might whoop my azz if I embarrassed him by embarrassing myself in any public forum.
And I don't care how old you are, I'll never understand why you would want to post trampy pics… unless that's your job. Because then I kinda understand.