Ummm
where the hell y’all at!?
Lurkers
Regulars
Old heads
Where the hell are y’all?
For the past couple of weeks I’ve noticed a decline in the activity on the blog. Y’all ain’t talkin’ much! What gives?
What can we do to bring back the fun and activities of yesteryear, yea I said yesteryear!
Will these pics of sad puppy dogs help?
I miss y’all!
-Beth
Apparently it is Beth's Job to get on Slaus's nerves.
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Awww…Puppies!!! I know over here I've been dealing with first trimester fun which has me either asleep or throwing up, so I haven't been on the computer as much and my phone be trippin about letting me comment. I still do lurk though, even if i can't post.
Ahhh babies…
I just got my first ultrasound yesterday so I'm all gushy about it lol. I'm such a girl.
:; whispers a secret into your belly and does an ancient chant ::
may your baby be slausy for all days!!
LOL already is…that ultrasound was comedic lol…the dr swore baby was flipping her the bird for taking its pic lol
NOOOOOOO!
Babies and those hormones will do it you. I hope your second trimester is better for you.
Thank you thank you me too. This sucks
BEEN HERE, BEEN REAL!
Longtime lurker here…posting from my phone is a bish. That's why I lurk. Sometimes it drains half my battery waiting for the page to load. So I have to find a way to get on from a laptop or desktop when the chance arises. But I still luh' yall doe!
I'll look to see what settings can be tweaked on the mobile version, doll, or i'll make Lo do it
the page won't even load on my phone…at least right now…but my phone is the jankiest of janky phones in the universe
Mine loads on the phone, but it's too difficult to comment, so I only do it from my desktop or laptop…and YouTube videos make the page janky
Amen
I've never been in the habit of coming here. Maybe that needs to change
I love when I do though.
Yeah… you need to!
Had pretty serious personal BS happnin which resulted in an extended period of severe depression that I'm trying to pull myself out of without medication. so. hard. omg. And other random bs.
*Hugs*
hugs and nipple pluck
Pssssh…… better ride that zoloft train…. did wonders for me when i was going through shyt. only bad side efect is the super high you feel at the beginning when your body is tryna figure out wf is going on……. and that you damn near have to be tasered in the taint to orgasm.
When i was taking it awhile back, there was a time when I couldn't orgasm for like 2 weeks! Just be silverbacking for houurrrrs.
My wife's vagina demanded a lesser dose or for me to sign divorce papers for spousal abuse.
:: thrusting motion :: was knocking that ish OUT
Seriously. if not meditation? Tai chi… i still do tai chi bought once a week and it's some truly freeing ish mentally.
Also what i've discovered lately because i too have been in a nasty funk and i don't really want to use the meds, is that i've had to find what centers me… for it's fresh air… a vigorous bike ride.. a run.. dancing… etc. I've found that working out even a little bit, releasing those endorphins, has helped a WHOLE lot. Some days I can't even lift my arms from the preacher curls for my biceps, but damn if the energy isn't amazing. Ove the past 2 months i've been able to move my belt over 2 notches and some of my sleeves are much tighter round my arms. It's a good feeling, and it's a feeling that came from finding something to fight the bad feelings of hopelessness/guilt etc
Another trick i learned was to write down all the things that are bothering me. Putting it all out there. Then going through each one and asking myself if this is something I can change, then asking HOW i can change it.. writing that down.. and making a plan.
Depression and funk does not just GO away.
You can't PRAY that shyt away either, regardless of what some fools want to tell you.
YOU have to actively make things better for you through either looking inward on your own to find the solution or getting some help whether it be via a therapist or medication.
Depression is real. Mental problems are real.
Never think otherwise.
and if you ever need someone to talk to about it, someone who HAS gone through it, feel free to contact me. Slaus.caldwell@gmail.com.
we can email, skype, whatever you want to do.
You aint got to do this ish alone, doll.
titty sprinkles.
You can't PRAY that shyt away either, regardless of what some fools want to tell you.
if only yo arrogant ass realized that prayer is much like meditation…so yes it CAN help!
it is very similar to writing down your problems…you are talking it out…but with God…it does not mean you are sitting there saying God fix this and not doing anything but sitting around waiting on the heavens to open up and all your problems are solved…that's not how prayer works…or that's not how it is supposed to work…
Um… maybe meant you can't "wish" it away…
::Ducks outta grown folks business::
lol i'm not even bothering with the foolishness of debating praying and it's benefits. it's a pointless debate. all that matter is what works for that person and if it does work.. so be it.
yeah ok.. if you are arrogant enough to believe your problems matter to someone who created the vastness of everything, fine.
I'm not sure if it's sad or comical that i'm the one looked at as arrogant in this situation.
either way… if it works for you, do it.
whatever helps free your mind… do that.
You can kneel and pray or you can get up and move….. for me only one of those options make sense. But if the other makes any type of logical sense for you, do that to. I'm not here to judge
either way… I'm not debating religion with any of you. if it works for you… run with it. best of luck to you and I sincerely wish you the best with it.
"it does not mean you are sitting there saying God fix this and not doing anything but sitting around waiting on the heavens to open up and all your problems are solved"
I think the problem is that a lot of people believe it works like that. The way you described it would be like meditation, but I really doubt that's how all people do it.
Thanks love. I appreciate this more than you know. I have been prescribed medication but because I don't like to take things that affect the way my brain works as deeply as anti-depressants do. That's a crock of shyt, I know, but that's how I feel. I believe strongly in prayer, but I do recognize that mental illness and depression are real and very dangerous, especially with Black folks. I've been so depressed lately that it's hard for me to even talk to God or to write anything down. Getting out of bed, getting dressed and going to work are MAJOR accomplishments.
My issues are many but most of them are about 1) the change in season (seasonal affective disorder is real in these streets) and 2) the lack of positive, reciprocal relationships in my life. 2012 was all about weeding for me. Weeding out relationships with people that did not/do not put in the same or nearly the same amount of effort that I did/do to maintain the relationship. Realizing that I am doing most of the work to maintain relationships truly fux with me. Realizing that most of the people that I put the most amount of my precious time into have gone on to live fabulous lives and my life is in the same condition it was in when they entered it. It makes me question the quality of people I allow to be in my life, question myself about who I am and what I want… I'm working through it all. The problem is, I'm working through it alone and my insurance requires I pay $70 per visit for the first, like, 8 weeks and the therapist wants me to come twice a week. I'm not about that life, mmk? I don't have cash like that.
Anyway. Sorry for rambling. I'm gonna be ok.
Oh! And I was supposed to be adopting a baby girl in November. Had her named and everything. Baby showers planned…and the mother changed her mind.
Then another family member got pregnant, who isn't taking care of the two she has already and she was heartily congratulated by another family member that just had her 5th and just turned 30.
None of that helped.
*HUGS* That's all I can offer right now. Hang in there baby doll!
Sis,just know that you are loved and If you ever need to vent,cry,set shyt on fire, anytime day or night,I'm here……………..chidiva@ymail.com
that's tat shyt I hate…. I hate seeing fools not taking care of kids that other people would move mountains and seas in order for a chance to love.
:: big ol hugs ::
that wasn't a ramble at all!
If you have a close relationship with God, like Beth said; Pray. because for many people, Prayer is hope.. and hope is power. Many intellectuals and jaded persons like myself may not see it that way, but regardless of the fact, for those who believe in the power of Prayer, prayer can be the difference between success and wallowing. It can not be the end all be all, but when you need an extra boost, by all means, when you can't stand it anymore.. kneeeeel.
I am envious of people who believe in it's power. I wish I was one of those people who had unwaivering belief in it. But i am not, never have been.. never will be and that is my cross to bear.
But for you? it gives hope… and that is power.
so add that to your regiment. But know that you have to try lots of different things to find what it is that helps you.
this is what happens in therapy… something i know from being on both ends of the spectrum.
you're asked lots of questions… therapy is less about telling people what they need to do, and more about making people understand the roots of their problems.
you're going to have to find those roots…which means like a landscaper, you're going to have to dig… dig through a whole lot of shyt within yourself.
the eureka moments in therapy are when you are manipulated into finally finding that problem.. the root if it all deep down inside…. because a sickness deep into the roots, affects the very health of the tree and all that tree touches. your own psyche is the same damn thing.
I advise you start a journal and writing down these feelings. putting them all out there… and then examine why those feelings exist… and those… and then those… follow that damn rabbit into the hole, darling. because then when you CAN seek professional help you have a damn roadmap of sorts…..
I hope this helps but more than anything I hope i' right… I could be very wrong, and someone who is well versed in these things like aliciapdx would have better insight as it's been maannnny years since i've sat in a 400 level psych course.
I have journals. Many filled. I do write and used to consider myself a writer. But at this level, I can't even write.
But I'm ok. It will be ok.
well long as you know you've got many people who won't mind you rambling and chewing their ears off hun, we got you.
Thanks Slausey. *flashes side bewb*
Yea, what the big fella said. Ramble on. It's what we do. You see me do it all damned day long on FB (and the OHN church says "heeeeell yea", I'm sure!) You gotta do what you gotta do in the way you choose to do it. Either way, you're gonna get a heap-o-love from us lot, for sure.
That go for lurkers too? I always delete my comments and rambles….i only post occassionally when yall are clownin
You are not rambling at all.
You're just saying the stuff that most people don't have the fortitude to say.
That is not easy to do and it takes a tremendous about of courageous to speak up.
tremendous
^^THIS.
What this lady said.
*monstersnuggles*
PUPPIES!!!!
And I'm here. Kicking ish over and just being awesome. Awesomely ratchet.
Work. Between moving into a new building, an impending takeover and a general rise in the number of projects I'm tasked too, I just haven't had time.
Only speaking for MYSELF,I only tend to read the serious stuff(sometimes.Menopause has My attention span like that of a little 5 year old hopped up on ritalin and skittles,I cain't focus on SHYT!!) and comment on the fun and ignant.I have enough serious shyt going on in RL and Here with my OHN fam is a much needed diversion from daily bs. I come here exclusively For my daily dose of crazy& coonaningans.But I love you guys(well,some of you…lol),You know I'm not going anywhere
Thanks babe.. I think I see that alot.. and am guilty of it myself. Since my aintshyt meter is set on high. I comment on the fun stuff and read the serious stuff.. which I do sometimes comment on.
If a serious subject interests me,I'll comment.I tend to stay away from political issues because frankly,I read enough of that crap in the news and Posted to my FB page that it's really starting to irritate me.I'm the same kind of Crazy here and in rl and I'm constantly laughing and actin' a plumb fool.Life's serious enough and most of us tend to respond more to laughter more than the serious side of everything.
"My attention span like that of a little 5 year old hopped up on ritalin and skittles"
LIFE +1
I'm almost the opposite. I seem to gravitate towards spouting on the 'serious' stuff more now, and not so much the ratchet stuff. Though, having said that, I ain't averse to a bit of talkin'shyt.
Have you tried setting the page to the mobile setting? There should be the option at the bottom of the screen when it loads the home page.
It works fine on my phone… let me see if there is a different addy it loads..stand by.
It doesn't work too well on mine. I just use the normal desktop version.
It works nice and fast on mine… I will try to post a screen shot… it looks different on the phone.
Ok here is my screenshot.. do you guys look like this?
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Hmmm… what a large screen shot you have…
I always come at you large and thick…
You are crazy!!! LMAO….
Just can't do right Lo
No.. no different addy. I think Slaus has it set that if you go to a page on a mobile device it will see that and load it mobile style.. make sense?
I do get the mobile version…but like Beth, I got the jankiest of the janky, so…*sigh*
I've been dealing with a serious bout of baby-envy-induced depression…sorry, I'll try to be around more, but I can't promise I'll be cheery.
That's why I say you're crazy but mean. Go on and do you.
*hugs*
I can't have one of my favorite OHNers sad…
you want my son?
I'll send him to you…he comes with an xbox and a car
Dit-TO, honey.
C'mere lets cuddle it out n shyt. :: mauling bear hug ::
:: lookit my hands, Wanna! I aint touching titty or nothing!!!! ::palms some booty real quick ::
It's not you… It's me.
I moved and I don't like it
I miss my momma
Seems like a commitment to log in to comment (and I even can't get my man to commit)
I did something funky to my cookies (on this damn little notebook computer that I brought with me) so I have to log in every time.
My phone is absolutely pschytzy on this site too… and I have to hit the "turn off mobile" button on every page.
The time difference leaves me out of the rapid fire response peak period.
I lurk like a MUTHA FATHA though…
I ain't working right now… so Imma try to do better…
damn jar-head… you know love LOVE me some YOU!
You betta do betta lady!
I'm here although I'm lurking more than I ever have. Had a lot of isht going on with moving and grieving the loss/change of a dear friendship…and since I think I'm perimenapausal, that isht has taken my emotions on one of the shytiest rides. Woo-woo-wooooooo….Even typing about it has my eyes leaking a little….damntearducts!
And work tasks has my time limited.
I think I'm perimenapausal
I swear I am too
anxiety is out of control
but then again…life ain't s**t for me most days so it could just be normal for me…
I have an appt with a GYN who combines traditional medicine with holistic treatments in mid-October. I suspect she'll do a full work up on me after I tell her what's going on with me. This crying at the drop of a hat crap MUST END NOW!! Talk about a mid-life crisis! Sheesh…
Choc,Holistic is the way to go for menopause treatment.I did a lot of research on HRT,and the side effects and all the other host of things that can screw up makes it a scary option if say you had cancer run in your family or a number of other things.Black cohosh has been a God send for helping with the mood swings and anxiety,but there are tons of all natural supplements that can make it a lot more bearable.
Please share your OBGYN contact. I'm not perimenopausal but have issues that may need a holistic approach. I swear my uterus hates me these days. Must be stress. Please email me at deltagirl2@gmail.com. thx
check your email….
i am here…been thrown extra duties, been a little off and not very inspired lately…
I try to hop in here but I've seriously been neglecting OHN and depriving ya'll of my aintshyttery. My main thing is when the school year starts…my leisure time stops. Little one's football, Bigger one's tumbling…I'm on my phone more than I'm at a PC or laptop. In this case…it really ISN'T you…it's me. Out here reception is for SHYT and since I usually have long winded tirades I lose motivation to post because my fatass fingers have a hard time typing on the stupid iphone keyboard.
While at work….my excuse is…I'm on a f*cking MISSION. Ya'll know my crackhead ass is crafty…well I'm tryin to lie and hack my way into finding a particular line of blank clothing to embroider. I KNOW these bytch ass websites are buying them from SOMEWHERE and I shall not rest until I find them from somewhere OTHER than the damned ol' alibaba.
Dayaum Tracy!!!
If I had a dollar for every time I get distracted, I wish I had some ice cream!
I'm here a few times a week. But, little one is back in school, in martial arts, and cheer starts up again this week, and I just started a new job, plus busyness with the business. There's a lot going on.
Well..a bytch gon' have more time to post for a minute cuz a bytch is trying to get a damn job.
Sigh
I only 'thumbs up' or read serious stuff because I like being employed.
If it feels hostile, I don't comment.
If I'm late on the crazy stuff or I get the impression it's inside joke or a lot of inside comments, it feels as if I'm trying to hop in between the ropes like I'm playing double dutch with kids I don't know.
It's easier to go play twiddly winks in the corner or touch myself and watch y'all play…or do whatever kids kids do on the playground.
Do you want to sit in the corner together and play tiddly winks? LOL
Yes please.
Do I have to say "Pause" cuz I really wouldn't mean it.
No pause necessary, boo ::wink wink::
Dang, I almost thought you said "tiddy winks"…therefore if that was the case cakes wouldn't stand a chance…even with all those pies she has lol
I would tell you —->but you'll take that literally and move to Iceland.
That's ok…I'll go…but just so you know, I won't be going too far. MMUUUUHHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Girl please.. jump in.. I (we) wont hurt you. You might get molested.. but other than that.. it cool.
But I want it to hurt….
ma'am….
Tell her sis… play with me if she wants to… LOL
I looooove eating cake. As for pie……
Wha….?
A wise man once said…Be careful what you ask for.
::pulls ball gag and Cat Paws whip out of closet::
Ummm C&P can you come in the room a min?
YEEEEEAH! *gets out camera*
This is why I have a tripod.
Keep playing… keeeeeeeep playing… you MUST not know my rep. lol
Will have you over my knee…
Get it lo
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Once I got sick I stopped checking daily and once I fell out of habit . . . I guess I need to fall back into habit.
I've been missing you. Are you better or headaches still kicking yo azz? Know why yet?
School work keep me busy. I've been doing heavy lurking the last few weeks. I'll do better. Love you Beth!
I love you more!!!
See, when I read this, two things happened. First, Beth sounded a lot like this in my head…
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Then, I was like….
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lmaolmaolmaolmao!!!!!!!!!
I'm upset at you.
For why, kind ma'am?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Beth gonna roll you up
For why? You know you heard the same song I did when you read that letter. Matter of fact, I'm going to run to the arms of an angel right now, before my second tear drops.
"Matter of fact, I'm going to run to the arms of an angel right now, before my second tear drops"
I looked over Jordan,and what did I see?
Comin' for to carry me home. A band of angels comin' after me………………………………DEAD.
I'm here and there…My bytch ass supervisor must smell the hate that I have for her in the air, cause she has really being trying me and my pimp hand….I'm throwing up the deuces to this place at the end of Dec…and the only reason why I'm staying till Dec is cause I want all my tax refund check…yes, I have hood rat shyt to do with my nickles and I want them all….other than that, being here, on F&F & trying to build that has me drained….oh and other than the fact that I hate yalls ads, i'm good! LOL
omggggggg i I died at Hoodrat shyt to do
I've been through so MANY changes over the last 10 months (new baby, BD and his drama, returning to work), so I can relate to others. But I check the page everyday because the humor of Slaus, Lo, and others keeps me going and I appreciate it.
::kisses the back of your neck… softly::
what's funny.. is that the traffic numbers are actually UP.
it's just the comments that are down….
I have a question for you Mr.Slaus,I'm just curious as to how this blogging machine works,I'm weighing the pro's and con's of starting one,might not happen, but I'm thinking about it.Do bloggers get paid for traffic/hits to their sites or is it the ads that generate revenue?
hit me up and i will give you alll the details, hun.
slausworks@gmail.com
Thank you Kind Sir : )
Probably cuz it sounds like people are still visiting & reading, but not commenting — life is getting in the way…for now.
Truthfully I literally read OHN EVERYDAY, one has to get her share of intelligent aintshytness! But I don't always feel comfortable commenting. If you aren't an individual that comments frequently, it feels as if your comments aren't taken seriously. So I lurk my azz off & enjoy the fun around me. . . . . . . .
heffa you better comment !!!
now you are official fam cause I called you a heffa
you have no excuse not to comment now!
I try to at least come and read every day, I just don't comment all the time.
Went through a breakup, no job, was in denial about depression. Now trying to stay afloat until my doctor's appointment comes up…On steady lurk mode unless something catches my fancy.
I see the depression force is strong amongst the OHN folkz.
I grew up hearing that going to the doctor for "mental issues" was a cry for attention. I've was diagnosed with depression initially at 17 after being assaulted, but was too ashamed to continue with the counseling…I've mostly ignored all symptoms and everyone just chalked up mood swings to me being evil ::shrugs:: I have a VERY insightful 8 year old blessing and I need to get my shyt together because she deserves to have a parent who is full "there". I can't do the mood swings anymore I'm tired and some of the thoughts that go through my head scare the hell outta me. Being on here makes me realize that I'm not the only one struggling and it's nothing to be ashamed of.
I thank the OHN staff for creating this community more than y'all know!
You are certainly not alone sista. Look me up on the book of faces if you like. http://www.facebook.com/noassimilationrequired Gotta get support where you can.
woo you aint neva LIED!
very interesting isn't it?
Im addicted so I aint going no where…either im on FB or here..smh..
I heard that from you before…
o.o
Just saying.
Word is bond!
Sorry OHN. September 2012 has been frikkin sucky! I spent my birthaversary weekend in the hospital with a severe URI (upper respiratory infection) and the the following week trying to recuperate. Then had to deal with shyte that was left undone and totally f'd up during my absence from work. Not to mention the two anniversaries and 12 birthdays amongst my family this month. I wasn't a frequent commentor to begin with but I'll make more of an effort to do so.
I think the real problem is ya'll been letting the white man write all the articles lately.
Bad Hex! Slaus' ashiness does not make him a white man. just white.
ma'am
Life comes through and happen from time to time and I have to actually pay attention thus turn my attention away from OHN…but I don't break my habit of checking OHN daily….but definitely hadn't commented in a long time…However, the comment thread from the Happy Vagina post was hilarious!!!!!
I spent the last week moving from Miami to Ohio and visiting people along the way up. Now I'm at the new job…I can do some thangs again. I'll try my best to be as stupid as hayal so that Beth won't be going around giving this face anymore
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lol
we need to meet up soon…
let me know when you have a free Saturday
For the first time in almost 3 years I actually have a job where I'm off on weekends and not working like 3 of them a month so I'm good. I just don't know much about Columbus, where to go or where the cool kids like to hang out lol. Let me know what you down to do and where you down to do it and I'll be there (Ohio ain't that big so I'm down to ride). Festival, movie, bowling, theme park, spades tournament, whatever I'm down…just let a brotha know something
not sure of your musical taste but a DJ friend of mine DJ's every Friday at the Troubadour I've never been but I know his work…nice chill type of R&B and soulful house (which I hate lol)
http://www.clubtroubadour.com/
I got your email so I'll get with you soon
welcome to Ohio!!!
YAY! DEEEEZ!
I'm here! I'm doing my best not to go to jail on a day to day basis. Girl Scouts and this daycare are owning my azz right now. Yall keep my half way grounded and thankful that I don't live in Florida.
Tooooo funny; I work with the GS Council (national)….. in a tech position tho….
I love you but corner now!!!
I'm here reading, etc. – just that my 9 to 5 has been in full on hectic mode for the past few months due to office drama, layoffs, etc. along with things on the music end w/the radio show & whatnot have REALLY gotten into a extra busy ass plane as of late…
Got to get back to commenting more on the regular basis…
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LUV THIS SONG
I'm getting ready to pull a Katie Holmes…. no network at home, so I post from work…
I've slipped back into lurk mode due to my battle with Facebook games addiction, job searching so I can leave this depressing state known as North Carolina, and the recent murder of a childhood friend. Beth I forgot to thank you and the others for your words of comfort in my time of grief, I was still in shock over what had happened. I learned a valuable lesson, cherish your friends while you're here because you never know when they may leave this Earth. On a lighter note,I still come here daily because the stories and humorous comments from everyone are a sure-fire way to lift anyone's spirits. Much love from Gizzard!
OMG, I need therapy from Cityville/Chefville/Bubble Safari
I think it's your fault I even play any the "ville" games
Ima unfriend you LMAO *lies*
whaaaat??? don't blame me *pouts*
Yeah all those new Zynga games were designed to suck us in . I started playing Hidden Chronicles to get rewards in Cafe World, then Bubble Safari to get the rewards for Hidden Chronicles, etc. It's like a pusher introducing you to marijuana, then crack and finally heroin. Blocking 10 Facebook games was very therapeutic, but Bubble Safari I cannot let go until I finish that darn Flying Machine!
Long time lurker here…Like most of you guys I have been dealing with personal issues. My finances are in
in the toilet, my dad just got diagnosed with Lukemia and I already lost my mom to cancer years ago, my SO don't know what the fugg he wants, and frankly I have been feeling like shyt lately. I come here several times a week for a good laugh because it's one of the few places that delivers such. But frankly my mind is occupied but getting out of this rut and finding myself spiritually. Many of my friends have moved or are moving out of ATL (don't blame them one bit) so I'm home alone a lot more. Otherwise I have no problem accessing the site via mobile.
::Hugs::
*cuddles*
::Smooches::
That's appropriate, right…..?
as long as the missus doesn't mind *gropes*
Girl…(soror?) {{{hugs}}}
why yes! thanks soror! *hugs*
I'm here. Just getting used to my daughter being away at college, and actually having just me to be ratchet. So, I'll be here more often.
Recent reader/lurker: I'm still here too! Like many others been dealing with my mental health issues.
But I do check in daily to get my giggle on. Have stopped commenting b/c I really dunno how shyt is gonna come out – cain't tell if its my true brain or the part thats broken – so mostly I just read.
Only other thing to say is maybe ease up on the big girl bashing. I thought that woman posing on the counter top was beautiful. She might could lose a lil weight for health reasons, but I'm thinking she got herself up on that counter just fine – she healthy and curvy and fabulous! (was a bit ratchet bringing grammaw in on the photoshoot but sometimes you gotta go with who ya gots)
The one thing I do treasure about finding this blog is that you guys cover the serious and the silly In your own unique stylee and just when I think I can't get out of the blues I'm in, I find myself hollaring and laughing like a loon – thats what I call live-saving-laughter and I thank you all for it!
and Bef.
I just wanted to say your name cuz it makes me giggle everytime ;p Bef Bef Bef!
"I really dunno how shyt is gonna come out – cain't tell if its my true brain or the part thats broken – so mostly I just read."
OMG I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks this.
And {{{hugs}}}.
(((((HUGGS)))) right back!!
Glad its not only me too
Those dogs…do they come in hot-pie-with-gravy-and-mash form?
Y'all know I cycle on and off with my commenting, but the new job means I don't have consistent access to a a computer – plus the IT dept is on some bootleg ish so I'm not trying to shut down the net when one of those big azz ads pop up. *LOL* And when I get home most of my time is spent making the most of what I've got here in London with the Englishman, so I don't get on the comp until after dark most times. But I've been a bit better lately so I'll try harder!
*pounces….and plays in your hair*
still here in lurk mode mostly
I think this post needs this…. [youtube auelywATC6g http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auelywATC6g youtube]
Like others, work and life stuff are taking a larger chunk of my time. I've been in job training/orientation sessions for the past three weeks, so by the time I get back to the hotel, I spend a few minutes catching up on posts and then I catch up on my notes from the day (translation: watch a movie with naked Tom Hardy in it).
I'll be home next week, so hopefully I will be around to comment more.
I'd like to see penis. Yeah just penis.
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You'll shoot your eye out kid
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HAHAHAHA Why does that look like Dante from Clerks?
I would show you mine but you will turn into stone if I do. And I like you far too much for that.
My Corgi Gordon says post on OHN hommies
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CORGI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Last couple o months have been especially busy for me. Been doing a LOT of juggling (insert crass joke here). I have been on lurker status but I pwamise to interact a lil more!
Work, work and more work…
I'm late to the party, as usual, but I wanna say that, for me, this time of year is always kinda…I'm prone to flake out a little. It's a very spiritual time of year for me, as well as – school starts, it stops being so ass-hot, so I want to do things like bake, or go on walks…and right now, I'm working on getting in the habit of working out a little every day, as I make some life changes. I have OHN on my bookmark toolbar, I love this place, because I feel like there's literally something for everyone here, no matter what color/gender/age/social class/level of ain'tshytness, and especially in this day and age-we *need* this.
So, if any of ya'll are still reading at this point (I'm longwinded as hale, I know it.), what can *we* do for *you folks* to show out appreciation for ya'll even when we're busy as shyt kicking life in the balls?
I'm here and check in every day. I don't post every day though.
Plus, I just adopted a second cat (little girl) for my boy cat, so I've been trying to get them to play nice for the past few weeks. It's working, but they still like to play too rough for my tastes. Especially since he's 4 years old and a big-bodied 12 pounds, and she's 6 months old and like 4 pounds. Both are fixed.
End of the year is approaching so highly anticipated games have drawn my attention.
Also studying for the Japanese Language Proficiency Test and working up savings for next year's Summer Sonic music festival is taking much time as well.
Lurker here. I love this blog yall funny den a munkeyrucker. I check durn near everyday but just created a profile to comment. I"ll probably still lurkalot but wanted to let ya'll know me likey.
Sorry! I was in basic training, then AIT, then I had to move to where ever Uncle Sam told me to…but I'm back!
*lurks back into the shadows, where no one will see him
I loooove all that is OHN. The aintshytness to the seriousness gives me life daily. I feel like I'm in on an inside joke cause I stay dying laughing at gifs and comments and explaining this shyt to ppl gets me a side eye lol. I generally lurk, but I'm trying to get involved more. If y'all have a fb add me cause I'm on there a lot too. Robi Cook. Too lazy to find the link but…oh well. Keep. Up the good work Slaus,Bep(thas Bama slang chile) and Hex. That is all
this site is great, i just never have much to say, im here daily, even weekends
I've quietly lurked for a LONG time since I first met yall ages ago. I rarely comment now…not sure why. Since losing my job in Feb I've been just trying real hard to spend my computer time job hunting. The rest of the time is spent fighting off anxiety and depression. Its been a hard year for me and mine.
*hugs*
sis you know I'm here for you if you need me!
*hops in your lap for a snuggle* We miss you here honey….but you do what you need to – just make sure you pop in for the laughter.
i mostly lurk but its because by the time i get to the story….like this one im late as hell and all the fun and jokes are over because its about 100 comments in and like someone stated previously it just feels silly to jump in when all that can be said has been said and all the inside jokes are wrapped up
I ain't seent you in a minnit – speak up anyway!
I am here, just a tad bogged down with work.
Most days, by the time I get here, its already been said! I give a few thumbs up and keep reading.
I usually end up late and alone on the posts.
…Like now.