Yesterday I was scanning my facebook newsfeed and saw one of my dearest homies post this question:
Cheating a sign of insecurity? Agree or Disagree?
Y’all know he got a gang of comments as of last look he had over 90 comments on this topic.
So of course I had to steal it for OHN.
Here are just a few of the comments:
Insecurity? Possibly. I think it’s more a sign of poor character and lack of integrity.
Disagree, I believe it is lack of maturity and selfishness…
Cheating is not about insecurity. It is about perception, expectations, and communication. Someone perceives they aren’t getting something from a relationship. That person has expectations that are 1) not realistic or 2) they haven’t shared with their mate. Because the cheater doesn’t communicate his/her expectations, etc. to the mate, cheater uses the excuse they aren’t getting what they need from mate.
Cheating = selfishness. Point blank period!
It’s a choice. Doesn’t matter the reason, ultimately it’s up to the person to act on it or not.
So what do you think OHN. Is cheating a sign of insecurity?