Love the blog! You guys are crazy in a good way, I think.
Anyway, a female friend of mine came to me the other day seeking advice on a situation she’s gotten herself in.
Apparently, she was at a work event and something happened between her and a man who occasionally attends these types of events.
From what I gather, this guy knows her and her co-workers due to the type of industry they all work in. They’ve developed a good “business associate” type relationship, greeting each other with hugs and kisses on the cheek.
At this event things went a little past the kiss on the cheek.
From what my homegirl told me she was sitting at a table alone enjoying some of the desserts at the event. This man walked up to her and said if I kiss you wonder would I taste that cake or whatever it was she was eating. She gets up and says lets find out and of course he planted a big kiss on her lips! Now according to her (I only have her side of this story) she didn’t do anything. She was “shocked” yet she didn’t say anything to dude. Oh let me add that while telling me this story she mentioned that this dude was allegedly diggin’ on her co-worker. Anyway, the event ended and she went home to her boyfriend, yep homegirl got a man. She says she told him but felt like she did nothing wrong. At this point I’m looking at my phone like am I in the twilight zone. Her man of course is mad at her. I told her look honey you did some foul mess. Then had the nerve to act like you didn’t anything wrong. You need to go apologize to your man and pray he forgives you for this mess. She of course thinks I’m reading too much into this and that her intentions were not to kiss the dude. I told her look regardless of your intentions, which I think are some BS, you let a man kiss you in the mouth. That is not going to sit well with most dudes so yea your man is mad and I can completely understand. If you were my woman I’d be pissed too!
We went back and forth and she still just didn’t understand why her man is mad at her.
I’m sure I could have sent this in to the fellas in the roundtable but since I’m a dude I figured they would be on the same page as me of course I could be wrong. Maybe you can post this on the blog to get everyone (the ladies) opinion.
Is my advice wrong? Is her man trippin’? Or is she on some other BS and needs to admit she likes ol’ dude and wanted to see what was up?
I’m just going to let you guys handle this.